Assalamualaikum J
I have always wanted
to tell my students every time they complained about their low marks I gave
them this:
“I want to let
you experience failure for I believe that to be a very good experience. You
should never expect your success rate to be 100% in your every attempt in
whatever you’re doing in your life. I have no problem whatsoever in failing
you. I do believe that you will at some point of your life fail in doing
something. It’s the experience of how to handle failure is important. You can
do your best in everything, but not everything is what you’re expected them to
become. I think school is the best place to experience failure. There are no
real consequences, just raw emotion of failing at something. You should
experience failure so you know how it feels to fail, so you would try your best
not to fail, and even if you do, you know how to handle failure. Failure should
be celebrated as the norms of life. Life is full of risk. Experience teaches us
what risk should be taken and which should be avoided. Calculated risk is not
the same as pure gamble of luck. You should expect to fail, then only you would
prepare to face your failure, if failure awaits. Failure is one way of telling that
you’re not going the right direction. Fail now so you won’t fail when it
matters the most, even if you do, you know how to handle them. As people say,
prepare your best, expect the worst.”
I know this
sounds a little (little??) preachy and dramatic. That’s why I wrote it here
instead of telling this to my students. I’m not good at telling this verbally,
I would die laughing instead, hehe.
If you call me
‘cikgu’ and you’re reading up to this paragraph, mark this post somewhere in your
little fat between your ears.
Just sharing my
2cents
Cheers :D :D
p/s : I am a
cruel teacher..wahaha
Failing is a process of learning :)
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ReplyDeleteso true..but not many are willing to face failure..me included :(
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